{"id":6056,"date":"2023-05-01T06:00:00","date_gmt":"2023-05-01T13:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/?p=6056"},"modified":"2024-11-18T10:19:14","modified_gmt":"2024-11-18T18:19:14","slug":"10-things-about-money-why-im-single","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/10-things-about-money-why-im-single\/","title":{"rendered":"10 Things I Just Learned About Money That Explain Why I\u2019m Single"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>After another miserable Valentine\u2019s Day came and went, I sat and wondered, chomping on half-off Russell Stover heart-shaped chocolates, \u201cWhy am I still single?\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But then Quicken <a href=\"https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/love-money-relationship\/\">surveyed<\/a> nearly 1,200 U.S. adults, ages 18 to 74, and my tiny little brain learned a few things about love and money that explained \u2026 so \u2026 much.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">10 facts about money that explain why I\u2019m single<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer hide-mobile\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33%\"><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"741\" height=\"494\" src=\"https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/millennial-holding-money.jpg\" alt=\"millennial woman holding a fanned out stack of U.S. cash\" class=\"wp-image-6196\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/millennial-holding-money.jpg 741w, https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/millennial-holding-money-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 741px) 100vw, 741px\" \/><\/figure><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:66.66%\">\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Millennials love their money<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Would you give up whatever amount of money it took \u2014 as long as it would guarantee you a great relationship for the rest of your life?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>57% of millennials said no. They\u2019re keeping their cash, tyvm.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:40px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer hide-mobile\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33%\"><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"741\" height=\"492\" src=\"https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/cash-inside-heart-gift-box.jpg\" alt=\"cash inside pink heart gift box\" class=\"wp-image-6197\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/cash-inside-heart-gift-box.jpg 741w, https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/cash-inside-heart-gift-box-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 741px) 100vw, 741px\" \/><\/figure><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:66.66%\">\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Boomers are taking their cash with them<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>We asked Baby Boomers the same thing \u2014 would you give up whatever amount of money for love?&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A whopping 74% said no. No, they would not.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(The thing is, they\u2019re <strong>older<\/strong> than millennials. <em>What have they figured out that I don\u2019t know yet?<\/em>)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:40px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer hide-mobile\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33%\"><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"741\" height=\"492\" src=\"https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/toy-married-couple-on-top-of-prenuptial-paperwork.jpg\" alt=\"toy married couple standing on top of prenuptial paperwork\" class=\"wp-image-6198\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/toy-married-couple-on-top-of-prenuptial-paperwork.jpg 741w, https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/toy-married-couple-on-top-of-prenuptial-paperwork-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 741px) 100vw, 741px\" \/><\/figure><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:66.66%\">\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Yes I love you, just sign here<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>When asked about prenups, about one in three people said they\u2019d ask their partner to sign a prenup if their finances were vastly different.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Which makes me wonder\u2026 Did the other two not believe in prenups? Or did they just figure they\u2019d be the poor one?)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:40px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer hide-mobile\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33%\"><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"741\" height=\"494\" src=\"https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/iou-paper-sticking-out-of-red-piggy-bank.jpg\" alt=\"I.O.U. paper sticking out of red piggy bank\" class=\"wp-image-6199\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/iou-paper-sticking-out-of-red-piggy-bank.jpg 741w, https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/iou-paper-sticking-out-of-red-piggy-bank-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 741px) 100vw, 741px\" \/><\/figure><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:66.66%\">\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. Taking money from Mom &amp; Dad is out<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>More than two-thirds of everyone we asked said they didn\u2019t like it if their special someone relied on friends or family for money.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Living in their basement is still okay though, right?)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:40px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer hide-mobile\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33%\"><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"741\" height=\"494\" src=\"https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/sad-man-with-money-flying-from-wallet.jpg\" alt=\"sad man with money flying out of his open wallet\" class=\"wp-image-6200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/sad-man-with-money-flying-from-wallet.jpg 741w, https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/sad-man-with-money-flying-from-wallet-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 741px) 100vw, 741px\" \/><\/figure><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:66.66%\">\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. And giving them money isn\u2019t great either<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Nice people might really finish last \u2014 at least with something like 45% of the population.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They don\u2019t like it if their significant other is helping out with another family member\u2019s bills.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:40px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer hide-mobile\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33%\"><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"741\" height=\"494\" src=\"https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/piggy-bank-with-heart-sunglasses-standing-on-cash.jpg\" alt=\"piggy bank with heart sunglasses standing on top of a stack of cash\" class=\"wp-image-6201\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/piggy-bank-with-heart-sunglasses-standing-on-cash.jpg 741w, https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/piggy-bank-with-heart-sunglasses-standing-on-cash-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 741px) 100vw, 741px\" \/><\/figure><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:66.66%\">\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">6. Money can\u2019t buy happiness \u2026 but it helps<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>It turns out money is one of the biggest predictors of relationship happiness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When people were satisfied with their financial status, 73% were also good with their relationship. For those <em>not<\/em> satisfied financially, more than half were dissatisfied in their relationship too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Who says money can\u2019t buy love?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:40px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer hide-mobile\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33%\"><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"741\" height=\"494\" src=\"https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/person-putting-blocks-with-money-and-heart-symbols.jpg\" alt=\"person lining up vertical blocks with money and heart symbols\" class=\"wp-image-6202\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/person-putting-blocks-with-money-and-heart-symbols.jpg 741w, https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/person-putting-blocks-with-money-and-heart-symbols-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 741px) 100vw, 741px\" \/><\/figure><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:66.66%\">\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">7. Yeah, money <em>really<\/em> matters<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>When asked whether their romantic partner\u2019s financial standing matters to them, 60% of those 1,200 people said yes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>25% said it was <em>very<\/em> important.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:40px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer hide-mobile\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33%\"><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"741\" height=\"494\" src=\"https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/two-people-holding-one-gift.jpg\" alt=\"two people holding one gift-wrapped box\" class=\"wp-image-6203\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/two-people-holding-one-gift.jpg 741w, https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/two-people-holding-one-gift-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 741px) 100vw, 741px\" \/><\/figure><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:66.66%\">\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">8. But only 3% of people are into gifts?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>When we asked about love languages, 44% of people wanted quality time together. That was the single biggest category when it came to signs of affection.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The smallest category wanted gifts, at only 3%.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Maybe money isn\u2019t so important after all \u2014 unless \u201cquality time together\u201d means shopping?)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:40px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer hide-mobile\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33%\"><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"741\" height=\"494\" src=\"https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/hand-pulling-hanging-pink-hearts.jpg\" alt=\"hand pulling at hanging pink hearts\" class=\"wp-image-6204\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/hand-pulling-hanging-pink-hearts.jpg 741w, https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/hand-pulling-hanging-pink-hearts-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 741px) 100vw, 741px\" \/><\/figure><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:66.66%\">\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">9. At least we\u2019re happier with love than money<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Of those 1,200 people, 37% were \u201cvery satisfied\u201d with their relationship status. That might not sound very promising, but only 13% were \u201cvery satisfied\u201d with their financial status.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At least people are tougher on their money than they are on love!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:40px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer hide-mobile\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:33.33%\"><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"741\" height=\"494\" src=\"https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/seesaw-with-heart-and-coins.jpg\" alt=\"seesaw equally balancing a red plush heart versus a stack of coins\" class=\"wp-image-6205\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/seesaw-with-heart-and-coins.jpg 741w, https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/seesaw-with-heart-and-coins-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 741px) 100vw, 741px\" \/><\/figure><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:66.66%\">\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">10. Money and love \u2014 can\u2019t I have both?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Want to guess how many people were \u201cvery satisfied\u201d in both money <em>and<\/em> love?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Just 8%.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kinda makes trading money for love sound like a better deal, doesn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:40px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer hide-mobile\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-medium\" style=\"text-align:center\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" src=\"https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/cash-heart-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"heart shaped by hundred dollar bills\" class=\"wp-image-6206\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/cash-heart-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/cash-heart-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/cash-heart.jpg 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Want to improve the odds?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Between love and money, 75% of people said money causes more stress. All the more reason to take control of your finances and talk to your partner about money:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/3-simple-questions-for-8-figure-wealth\/\">The 3 Simple Questions That Led Us to 8-Figure Wealth<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/how-to-split-finances-as-a-couple\/\">How to Split Finances as a Couple<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.quicken.com\/blog\/money-imbalance-in-relationships\/\">How to Deal with Money Imbalance in Relationships<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My tiny little brain just learned 10 things about money that totally explain why I\u2019m single. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":59,"featured_media":6058,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"69","_seopress_titles_title":"10 Things I Just Learned About Money That Explain Why I\u2019m Single | Quicken","_seopress_titles_desc":"My tiny little brain just learned 10 things about money that totally explain why I\u2019m single. 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